I really hate my family and my home.. I don't feel like home..
I really want to go away from this people.. I don't know how they think..
I don't have a privacy.. They don't allow me to go with my friends..
They used my money without permission and return it after..
They insult my boyfriend and my friends..
They always put me down..
They don't allow me to be active in campus organization because I don't get money and only soft skills after my hard work job..
They only think that the one I need is material not friends not love..
They think material is love..
They are not a human..
The thing that I should do is..
Finish my uni and go away from this place..
I really hate this place and the people..
But, thanks to my boyfriends that always support me and hear me..
He's the only one I have..
Parent VS Child VS Behavior
Friday, June 17, 2011 by Jess
Why does every parents always blame their children for their own mistakes? actually, their children have bad behavior because they always did that every time, so their children think that it was acceptable.. another reason is because they don't agree what their parents do and can't say what they wanna say because if they talk back about that they don't agree and always asking why why and why, their parents will angry or spank them (it is for the worst case).. so they learn to shut their mouth up or maybe always fight back their parents..
I have 2 recommended film for every parents, you can see super nanny, or nanny 911.. in the film not all the problem in their family is their children, but the relationship between husband and wife!
For example, my mom always said that i'm wrong! but when i asked why? she can't answer me.. if she answered me, her answer is not a logical answer for me.. and i hate that, then i always talk back.. another problem, when they promised me about something that i really need, they always said "later, later, yes, i will do it later.." but, i waited for a long timeeeeee, almost over 2 months or maybe 6 months.. when i'm asking about the things after 3-6 months, they mad at me because i'm not a patient girl.. actually, it was their mistake because of they always do what they want first and then after a long time, they forgot about what i said.. so, i choose to remind them every 2 days, if they forgot about my things.. but, do you know? they mad at me again!! so, i learn to shut my mouth up.. and find the way how i can solve my problem.. i did it since i'm a teenager.. i'm angry and hate them.. they give me burden..
NB :
For every parents, just see first, how's your relationship problem, before you see your children problems, because, maybe their bad behavior comes from you.. and give your child time to say what they wanna say, and please hear them first.. if their request is not good for them, give them logical reason to make them understand why..
Good Luck! *sorry for my bad English*
I have 2 recommended film for every parents, you can see super nanny, or nanny 911.. in the film not all the problem in their family is their children, but the relationship between husband and wife!
For example, my mom always said that i'm wrong! but when i asked why? she can't answer me.. if she answered me, her answer is not a logical answer for me.. and i hate that, then i always talk back.. another problem, when they promised me about something that i really need, they always said "later, later, yes, i will do it later.." but, i waited for a long timeeeeee, almost over 2 months or maybe 6 months.. when i'm asking about the things after 3-6 months, they mad at me because i'm not a patient girl.. actually, it was their mistake because of they always do what they want first and then after a long time, they forgot about what i said.. so, i choose to remind them every 2 days, if they forgot about my things.. but, do you know? they mad at me again!! so, i learn to shut my mouth up.. and find the way how i can solve my problem.. i did it since i'm a teenager.. i'm angry and hate them.. they give me burden..
NB :
For every parents, just see first, how's your relationship problem, before you see your children problems, because, maybe their bad behavior comes from you.. and give your child time to say what they wanna say, and please hear them first.. if their request is not good for them, give them logical reason to make them understand why..
Good Luck! *sorry for my bad English*
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